Words are often misleading. 'Boundaries'
is one such word. The message seems to be “Closeness is OK, but too much
closeness can get harmful. Learn to draw the line and say ‘back off!’” But in close relationships, how close is too
close? In fact, is there a limit to being ‘close’? What about unconditional
acceptance, complete trust or genuine intimacy? Can boundaries and intimacy go
together? Let us investigate together. Not what I think ‘boundaries’ mean, but
what a healthy, harmonious definition of the word can be, how it gets distorted
and also how we can prevent it